SPOILING THE NAME KAMALA DAS
SPOILING THE NAME
KAMALA
DAS
The poem is all about
the role of the name of an individual especially woman in society
(patriarchal).
The name which is
given by someone else becomes the defining factor for that individual. The
poet explains how this name is a burden for her and how society restricts her
movements because of it. The poem falls under Confessional poetry.
Stanza 1
The poem begins with
the phrase, I have a name. According to the poet, the name was given
to her by someone else for his own convenience and she has it with her since
last 30 years.
Now that it is her
identity, she is often advised not to spoil her name. Spoiling here
refers to the acts that are against the norms of society. She is thus asked to
abide by the rules of the society or else her name i.e. her identity
will be affected.
The poet says, “I
feel, I must laugh” because she has a life of her own which she desires to
live and does not want to live with the identity given by the society like the
cells of her body which are nameless yet living their lives. She doesn’t understand
why she has been given this name.
Stanza 2
I stanza 2, calling
her name as sweet-sounding (quite ironical because it is a
kind of burden for her) the poet asks two rhetorical questions to know why she
needs her name. First, because of her name or female identity, she has been
married to a man who gives him nothing but keeps her calling for sex.
Gives me
nothing refers
to the love and affection that she always desired but could not get from the
very man whom she has to spend her entire life with. Her unsuccessful married
life is well depicted in her other poem An Introduction.
Second, her name
starts being called out whenever she goes in the city’s dusty streets in
the afternoons just to read old books or to look for valuable
things or experience new thrills. These lines show how a woman’s freedom is
restricted in India.
She can neither get
the education nor can roam around or experience joy. According to the poet, all
these things are just because of her name or female identity bestowed on her.
Stanza 3
In the final stanza,
the poet wonders why she needs to remember or bear that sweet-sounding
name. According to her, it is a medal which she has undeservingly
gained when her life is in misery and this name is of no use to
her but a burden.
The society,
according to her is asking her silly thing, i.e. carry this gift of a
name like a corpse and totter beneath its weight and perhaps even fall. The
line means that she has been forced to retain this identity which is, in fact,
a burden like a corpse for her and will have to keep it till she dies.
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