SELF-MANAGEMENT
SELF-MANAGEMENT
Positive attitude is one of the
most valuable qualities in an individual, especially when dealing with other people. Life is not a bed of roses, for
challenges come your way at every step. Maintaining
poise, and meeting the challenges, with a positive attitude will help you sail through
life comfortable.
A Person with a clear set of values
and sense of direction or purpose is a self-
directed personality. He follows values and vision closely and
carefully. Being a good listener they get advice and ideas from others, but the decision
is their own. A self directed personality is characterized by, honesty,
exact goals, mental stamina, self – respect, sacrifice, and optimism. Obviously, this kind of self directed, self
controlled, self governing person will prove to be a valuable employee
in any situation.
The various positive qualities
of a self directed personality is as follows.
· Honesty
· Clear good
· Competence
· Self respect
· Sacrifice
· Optimism
Honesty is the best policy for a
self directed person. He / she will stand by truth at a time. They will not lie under any circumstances, nor will they
attempt to cheat anybody. They will not do anything unethical and immoral.
Self directed person has clear
personal and professional goals, both short term and long term. For example, your goal now is to complete your degree
course and get a job in a company. If
you are able to get a job in a government department, it is well and good. If
not these days a number of jobs are
available in private companies. If your goal is clear to you now, you will complete the course at the end of the third
year as join a company..
Unquestionably competence is another aspect of self directed individuals. Whatever skills or knowledge he / she acquire, they master it
thoroughly. Then listen speak, read, and write better than others. They are
more time – conscious and are beneficial employees to the organization.
They do not make mistakes, however, in the event
of error, they are quick to rectify it. They are team builders willing to work
with others. They do not waste the
resources of the organization. In fact, they contribute to the growth of other employees
and the organization. Their behaviour
and attitude contribute to their success.
Self respect is a notable characteristic
of a self directed person. He / she respect others
around them. They have a strong sense of self and are aware of their strength and weaknesses
. A good example of a
person with a strong sense of self respect is Dr. B. R. Ambedkar. He was born in a humble family, but he
rose to the position of the architect of the
Indian Constitution. He overcomes numerous difficulties in his life. He
respected himself and others
too. Today is s source of inspiration for million of people
all over India.
Optimism is a remarkable characteristic
of a self directed person. An optimistic always has faith in good things of life. He will find in misfortune. Clear light in darkness,
success in failure, a mentor in a tormentor, and so on. He will always rise up to the occasion. He is a true followers of
swami Vivekananda who said: “arise, awake, and
stop not till you reach your goal, “you have to always remember that nothing is achieved
without opposition.
Self direction empowers people to
design supports based on their unique strength
and needs. Goal setting is powerful process by which we set certain
goals to achieve in certain time.
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